stupid vicki - 1, 2, 9, 10, 11, 18, 19, 25
you dumbbb
1. What is more difficult for you, looking into someones eyes when you are telling someone how you feel, or looking into someones eyes when they are telling you how they feel?
It’s more difficult for me to look into someone else’s eyes when I am telling them something important. I feel like I am a good listener, so I don’t mind making eye contact with someone when they are telling me something. I still don’t mind looking at someone while telling them how I feel, it is just more difficult than listening to another person.
2. Think of the last time you were REALLY angry. WHY were you angry? Do you still feel the same way?
I was angry because my brother and I got into ahorriblefight. We get in fights ALL the time, and I hate it. And we both just lost it this time. I was angry because I felt like he was being selfish. But, we were both being selfish. And now I feel fine. Since we fight all the time, and our relationship is unhealthy, we get over shit really easily. Everything is fine now. I do not feel the same way. But I hate getting that angry and I’m glad it doesn’t happen often.
9. Think of the last person who you know that died. You have the chance to give them 1 hour of life back, but you have to give up one year of yours. Do you do it? Why or Why not?
No, I would not do it. And my reasoning is because of the person I know that died. If it had been someone else who had passed away recently, I may have felt much different. But, he died at 96 years old and was a close family friend of mine, but not related. Even if he was related I would not have given him that hour of life back because he was suffering. He hated living, he had experienced as much as he could and was probably happy to leave this world. I would give that life to someone who has much more to explore.
10. Are you the kind of friend that you would want to have as a friend?
Honestly, I don’t know. I am a really nice guy at times. But I can also be a huge dick. If you can put up with the doucehbag part of me, which I think I could, then yes I would want me as a friend. Because I can be a caring, nice person too. Hahahah I know people will disagree. but guess what? I dont give a fuck :) (that was the douche in me lol)
11. Does love = sex?
Depends on what kind of love. Romantic love? Yes. I think you can’t truly know if you love someone unless you have had sex with them. However, you can love someone in a different way, the way a mother loves her children. That does not = sex at all (obviously). And then there is just sex for pleasure, which def is not love. But I really don’t get how someone in a relationship can say: “I love you” and mean it unless they have actually experienced making love to one another. its complicatedddd
18. Imagine it is a dark night, you are alone, it is raining outside, you hear someone walking around outside your window. WHO do you wish was there with you?
No one. I don’t think I’ve found that person yet and idk if I ever will
19. Would you give a homeless person CPR if they were dying? Why or Why not?
I honestly think I would not. Whether I would and whether I should are two totally different things. I definitely think I should. But if that situation actually happened in real life, I don’t think I could. Could you? Give mouth to mouth to someone you have never met? Who you have no emotional connection to? I feel like I am answering this question completely wrong. But it is just the truth.
25. If you could do anything or wish anything, what would it be?
I would wish for the ability to transport myself to wherever I wanted to be, and take whoever I wanted with me at any time. The first place I would go, would be heli-skiing with an amazing girl. That girl who I have not found yet. If I could, I would ski/snowboard AT LEAST 5/7 days a week for the rest of my life with her. I would never get tired of it. (Until I got too old to do it…) OH and then when I would want one of those days off… we would travel around the world with my teleportation and be on vacation for the rest of our lives. AHhhhhh fantasies are such teases ;(
25 GOOD Questions.
- 1. What is more difficult for you, looking into someones eyes when you are telling someone how you feel, or looking into someones eyes when they are telling you how they feel?
- 2. Think of the last time you were REALLY angry. WHY were you angry? Do you still feel the same way?
- 3. You are on a flight from Honolulu to Chicago non-stop. There is a fire in the back of the plane. You have enough time to make ONE phone call. Who do you call? What do you tell them?
- 4. You are at the doctor’s office and he has just informed you that you have approximately one month to live. Do you tell anyone/everyone you are going to die? What do you do with your remaining days? Would you be afraid?
- 5. You can have one of the following two things. Which do you choose? Why? Love and Trust.
- 6. You are walking down the street on your way to work. There is a dog drowning in the canal on the side of the street. Your boss has told you if you are late even once more, you are fired. Do you take the time to save the dogs life? Why or Why not?
- 7. Would you rather be hurt by the one you trust the most or the one you love the most?
- 8. Your best friend confesses that he/she has feelings for you more than just friendship. He/she is falling in love with you. What do you (or did you) do/say?
- 9. Think of the last person who you know that died. You have the chance to give them 1 hour of life back, but you have to give up one year of yours. Do you do it? Why or Why not?
- 10. Are you the kind of friend that you would want to have as a friend?
- 11. Does love = sex?
- 12.Your boss tells your coworker that they have to let them go because of work shortage, and they are the newest employee. You have been there much longer. Your coworker has a family to support and no other means of income. Do you go to your boss and offer to leave the company? Why or Why not?
- 13.When was the last time you told someone HONESTLY how you felt regardless of how difficult it was for you to say? Who was it? What did you have to tell the person?
- 14. What would be (or what was) harder for you to tell a member of the opposite sex, you love them or that you do not love them back?
- 15. What do you think would be the hardest thing for you to give up? Why would it be hard to lose?
- 16. Excluding romantic love, when was the last time you told someone you loved them. Who were they to you?
- 17. If there was one moment and one time in the last month what would you change and why?
- 18.Imagine it is a dark night, you are alone, it is raining outside, you hear someone walking around outside your window. WHO do you wish was there with you?
- 19. Would you give a homeless person CPR if they were dying? Why or Why not?
- 21.You are holding onto your grandmother’s hand and the hand of a newborn that you do not know as they hang over the edge of a cliff. You have to let one go to save the other. Who do you let fall to their death? What was your rationale for making the decision?
- 22. Are you old fashioned?
- 23. When was the last time you were nice to someone and did NOT expect anything in return for it?
- 24.Which would you choose, true love with a guarantee of a broken heart, or never loved at all? Why?
- 25.If you could do anything or wish anything, what would it be?
People will stare. Make it worth their while.
— Harry Winston (via doomsdaymachine)
